Washington DC Couples Retreat

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A Private Couples Retreat That Changes Everything

Our flagship destination, the Washington, DC Couples Therapy Retreat, is a transformational 4-day, 3-night experience designed to help high-achieving couples shift from disconnection to deeper emotional and sexual intimacy—without leaving the country.

Led by Marissa Nelson, LMFT, CST, CSE, this retreat blends the sophistication of DC with the soul-deep healing of expert couples therapy. Whether you're facing a crisis, navigating infidelity, living like roommates, or simply longing to reignite the spark, this retreat offers the reset you've been craving.

Your Washington, DC Couples Retreat Includes:

  • Pre-Retreat Private 1-Hour Session with Marissa Nelson, LMFT CST CSE
  • VIP Airport Transfer Service for seamless arrival and departure
  • Private Welcome Lunch/Dinner with your therapist to set your intention
  • 4-Night Stay at a luxury DC hotel (hand-selected for privacy & elegance)
  • 9 Hours of Private Couples Therapy with Marissa, using evidence-informed models
  • Customized Workshop Materials & Retreat Manual
  • 60-Minute Couples Massage to help you reconnect emotionally and physically
  • 1-Hour Post-Retreat Virtual Check-In for continued support and guidance
  • Surprise Inclusions curated to enhance your experience

A Tailored Experience That Honors Your Story

From the moment you book, your journey is personalized:

  • Confidential Intake & Relational Mapping helps us understand your needs
  • Daily Private Therapy Sessions go deep into communication, trust, intimacy & more
  • Evidence-Informed Models like Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Gottman, Imago Therapy, and Sex Therapy are blended uniquely for your relationship
  • Intimacy & Sensuality Practices help restore closeness and safety
  • Aftercare & Integration Plan ensures long-lasting transformation

Why Choose Washington, DC?

With its blend of sophistication, culture, and privacy, DC offers the perfect backdrop for deep emotional work. You’ll stay in a discreet luxury hotel in the city, enjoy gourmet experiences, and have everything arranged for you—so you can focus entirely on healing your relationship.

Is This Private Retreat Right for You?

If you’re:

  • Drifting apart despite having built a great life
  • Facing a crisis of trust, intimacy, or disconnection
  • Feeling stuck in recurring conflicts or patterns
  • Longing to bring emotional safety and desire back into your relationship

Then this private marriage therapy retreat in Washington, DC is for you.

The IntimacyMoons Difference

Unlike group retreats or traditional therapy, our private model delivers:

  • Full discretion and personalized attention
  • Luxury accommodations and VIP service
  • Immediate breakthroughs with long-term tools
  • A safe space to speak truth, explore healing, and reconnect deeply

Instructor

Marissa Nelson is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT), AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) and Sexuality Educator (CSE), TEDx Speaker, Entrepreneur and Relationship Expert.

An internationally recognized expert, she is the creator of IntimacyMoons Couples Retreats, rated by Women’s Health, Fodor’s Travel, and Travel Curator Magazines as one of the top luxury couples retreats worldwide. She has also been featured in over 150 national and international media publications including the New York Times and The Wall Street Journal.

She consolidated her expertise into the popular TEDx talk “We all experience sexual rejection - and it’s not about sex”, which has been selected by  TED Conference as an editor's pick. In 2023, Marissa was selected as one of INNOVATE Washington’s Top 100 innovators. In 2024, Marissa is the 2024 recipient of the Award for Integrative Approaches to Sex Therapy from the American Association for Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). She was also award Businesswoman of the Year by G.I.R.L. Inc.

Marissa is the Washington DC facilitator of the University of Pennsylvania Wharton Women’s Circle.

Marissa is a proud graduate of the University of Pennsylvania with a Masters in Education Entrepreneurship, and also possesses a Masters in Marriage & Family Therapy from Drexel University. Marissa also pursued post-graduate studies, receiving a Certificate in Sexual Health & Sex Therapy from the University of Michigan in Ann Arbor.

ACCOMODATIONS

Your IntimacyMoons Washington, DC Couples Retreat will be hosted at a premier, hand-selected luxury hotel either in the city or in the Greater Washington DC Area (DC, Maryland, Virginia). Accommodations are included in the retreat pricing, offering a private and refined setting for your healing journey.

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Your retreat will be tailored to your needs based upon your initial consultation with Marissa Nelson LMFT CST CSE.

PAYMENT

PRICE

$12,000

Couples Therapy Retreat Package excludes airfare.

Cancellation Policy

A full refund (less applicable taxes and fees) will be processed if requested prior to pre-retreat introductory session with instructor and at least 30 calendar days prior to the start of the Retreat.

A 90% refund (less applicable taxes and fees) will be processed if requested after pre-retreat introductory session with instructor has taken place, but at least 30 calendar days prior to the start of the Retreat.

A 50% refund (less applicable taxes and fees) will be processed if requested within 15-30 calendar days of the Retreat start date.

No refund will be processed 15 calendar days prior to the Retreat start date.

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WHAT WOULD an experience LIKE THIS look like for YOU?
"It's like a brand new relationship somehow, even though it's 20 years old! It feels fresh and new and exciting. I think we've got enough to take back with us!"
" I would highly recommend for anybody. Even if you're maybe the verge of not being together. It definitely was so worth it for us for sure!"
 "This was really a chance to reconnect with your help. The tools you've given us were amazing, the questions that made us dig deeper and really get a better understanding of each other."
"  Marissa's counseling has moved mountains for us. She was able to help us to dig deep and to identify where the roots of our issues were, where they came from, and she helped us to connect a lot of dots!"
"  I feel like we're spoiled rotten. The food, the romance, everything that you set up made us feel like we are on our honeymoon again. So I would recommend this to every person I know, and that's my plan!"
 "We've had a great experience of understanding where we want to go moving forward and how to love each other and have a great relationship and build a stronger family."

Frequently asked questions

What is a private couples therapy retreat, and how is it different from traditional couples counseling?

A private couples therapy retreat is an immersive, multi-day experience designed to help couples rebuild trust, intimacy, and emotional connection in a focused setting. Unlike weekly couples therapy sessions, a couples retreat offers concentrated time away from distractions with a licensed therapist guiding you through a customized healing journey. At IntimacyMoons, our luxury couples retreats are tailored to your relationship's unique needs, combining evidence-based methods with the intimacy of a private, retreat-style setting.

Who are your couples therapy retreats for?

Our private couples retreats are designed for high-performing couples who feel disconnected, stuck, or on the brink of emotional separation. Whether you're recovering from infidelity, experiencing intimacy issues, or just feel more like roommates than lovers, our bespoke retreats help you reset your connection and deepen your emotional and physical bond. We also welcome engaged or newly married couples looking to build a strong relational foundation.

What types of issues can be addressed during a couples retreat?

At an IntimacyMoons couples therapy retreat, we address a wide range of relational challenges including: communication breakdowns, sexual dissatisfaction, infidelity recovery, emotional withdrawal, loss of trust, mismatched libidos, and more. Each retreat is customized, so whether you're dealing with a crisis or seeking reconnection, our goal is to help you leave with a stronger, healthier partnership.

Where are your couples retreats located?

Our anchor retreat location is in Washington, DC, but we also host retreats in select luxury destinations like Miami, The Bahamas, St. Lucia, Barbados and online. Each location is carefully selected to provide an atmosphere of privacy, comfort, and intimacy. While specific hotels may vary, all accommodations meet our standards of luxury and discretion.

What’s included in a luxury couples therapy retreat package?

Each private couples retreat includes a personalized pre-retreat intake session, 6–8 hours of private couples therapy workshop over 3 days, a luxury 3-night stay at a high-end hotel, a welcome dinner, couples massage, and post-retreat virtual sessions. Additional inclusions vary by location, but always center on deep healing, relaxation, and renewal.

Is this a group retreat or one-on-one therapy?

All IntimacyMoons retreats are private, one-on-one experiences for you and your partner. Unlike group retreats, you receive undivided attention and custom therapeutic support from your licensed therapist, ensuring privacy, tailored guidance, and a more profound impact.

How do I know if a couples retreat is right for us?

If you’ve tried weekly therapy with little progress, feel like roommates instead of lovers, or simply need a safe, accelerated path to healing, a couples retreat can be transformative. The immersive nature allows for breakthroughs that often take months in traditional therapy. You don’t need to be in crisis — even strong couples come to tune-up their relationship in a luxurious, supportive environment.

Do you offer retreats focused on intimacy or sex therapy?

Yes. We specialize in intimacy retreats, sex therapy retreats, and reconnection retreats for couples navigating desire discrepancy, emotional distance, or sexual shame. As a Certified Sex Therapist, Marissa Nelson uses trauma-informed, evidence-based tools to guide couples in reigniting passion and restoring a sense of closeness.

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